I often ask my clients what brings them into couples therapy NOW? Answers range from mild curiosity to severe urgency, wherever clients are at I admire and marvel at the willingness to seek support. In a culture that often prizes endurance, industriousness, and the ability to DIY, turning to professionals with the most intimate of struggles can feel like failing. Indeed, most of us grew up wishing our caregivers had more help with their intimate relationship. Some of us were